Pain hurts no matter where it comes from i.e., physical or psychological; no matter how tough we believe we are; we like to stay away from hurt or pain if possible. This is why some of us build walls. My circle is very small. If I examine my life, I would have allowed more people in… The truth is, we have to lower those walls to allow love and intimacy back into our lives. We do not have to cope with the unknown, pain, or depression alone. There are people who genuinely care-reach out.