God never intended the church to look like the world; He intended the church to look like Him in a world that needs love. Love at all costs, even if it hurts.
1 John 4:7–8 (NKJV)7 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. 8 He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.