Those with love and joy have brought many into the kingdom of God. Yes, there is a judgment side of God (He cannot help us, if we do not let Him), but that should never be our continued focus. Jesus came to give life and joy, not pain and suffering.
John 10:10 (NKJV): 10 The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.
John 15:11 (NKJV): 11 “These things I have spoken to you, that My joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be full.
Nehemiah 8:10 (NKJV)10 Then he said to them, “Go your way, eat the fat, drink the sweet, and send portions to those for whom nothing is prepared; for this day is holy to our Lord. Do not sorrow, for the joy of the LORD is your strength.”